agnes                                          The Gift
By Lori McDowell Krug


       
It was Christmas 1999, The last of the century.
I was not expecting such a special gift;
The gift of the family matriarch's story. 


we had gathered as we always do;
To share the holiday together;
A time of laughter, love and tears;
A day of beautiful weather. 

The story began at the house where she was born;
On October 20, Ninteen Hundred and Eleven
She was born to Ruel and Myrtle Taft;
One daughter of another seven. 

She shared with us her story of life;
The laughter and the tears;
She told of hardships and of love;
Of hard work and her fears. 

They had no indoor bathrooms;
An outhouse they did use:
They slept at night on beds of straw;
Pillows of feathers from the chicken broods. 

She spoke of winter horse drawn trips;
In open sleighs they would go;
To town when needed, not for fun;
A heated rock to warm their toes. 

You could sense the love  she'd speak with;
When talking of her father;
We sounded like a wonderful man;
Who took care of them and her mother. 

The time came when she spoke of when;
She met my grandpa, Paul;
It was a house dance long ago;
And in love they both did fall. 

The most Handsome Man in the world;
Were the words she used to describe;
The man that she ended up wedding;
Her love for him she couldn't hide. 


T
he story continued with the beginning of their life;
Together they did share;
The family that they started to raise;
The home that was built with care. 

And then in 1942;
The story turned very sad;
Their son Harold left their lives;
Pneumonia took the lad. 
 
I never realized how hard it was
She'd never shared before;
I felt a new respect for them:
I loved them even more. 

The pain eventually subsided,
It never went away;
Their life continued through the years;
Another daughter came one day. 

She joined the others June and Jack;
The baby of the group;
I think she held a special place;
She helped to close the open loop. 

The children grew and left the home;
Their parents were so proud.
They blessed them with nine grandchildren;
And more love was endowed. 

The day came that's inevitable
My Grandpa lost his life;
The family was together with him;
His children and his wife. 

And though the pain continues still;
She tends to muttle through it.
Life hasn't been as much fun for her;
I admire that she's never quit. 

So Grandma thank you once again;
For sharing your life with me;
And although you thought that was your gift:
Your gift was you to me... 

With love and admiration;
Your Granddaughter,
Lori