Wisdom
the only kind of wisdom that truly is wise preserves an individuals power of choice. Meanwhile it points out areas that need improvement or change without forcing the issue. It educates and encourages a person of the benefits for making a given change. Such changes must remain vuluntary. Yet at the point of physical death no further change is possible as the results in life are then fixed.
I see it a wise course to both say what needs changing and why it is to be done in relating to others. It is wise to know the differences between the following:
Doctrine & dogma
Grace & license
Love & lust.
Love & hate.
Men and women beyond the physical
Wisdom from knowledge or understanding.
We live in an age where words are having their meanings diluted or even reversed from what is true.
I prefer to be dictionary and biblically correct.
General wisdom based solely on observation is as follows. Wisdom is correctly applied knowledge using understanding.
To create anything one must have a mind usuing a tool to build anything.
Wisdom in relationships. This wisdom requires that as an individual you respect the will of another without necessarily agreeing with it. When you respect a person inevitably you put yourself in their place and ask would I want that done to me. When the answer is yes then continue with wisdom.
Wisdom builds relationships on the foundation of personal trust. That is established through personal risk. It is maintained by honorable personal conduct towards each other. It does not use another for gain rather it surrenders with understanding for the greater good of all involved.
Wisdom like agape(Greek) love will be there for you at all times but will not impose itself on you. Your own choices will determine you destiny.
That speaks of ultimate accountability and responsibility one has toward God. Such responsibility does not end simply because one dismisss the reality of the matter.